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@kaia i’ve confessed to a boy before and we still remained good friends for many years afterwards 🙏

@cell great if that works.

@cell @kaia the "boys will remember that one compliment they got about their jacket for years to come" is true so knowing a friend thinks you're cute/nice/hot is pretty nice even if you don't swing that way

@vriska @cell every close straight female-female friendship is a bit gay

@cell @kaia in my experience boys can handle rejection much better than girls

@cell @kaia tbf it might be bias. gay men might be just relieved the situation turned out ok. while straight women sometimes think they deserve something just because they took the initiative. but just a hunch and no meaningful sample size to make any statistic i think

@grillchen @cell think guys who actually ask women out have much more experience with rejection