I have a problem and it's not a womanizing or a sex problem (i fucking love women btw) or a drug problem or even an alcohol or anything like that problem. I have zero issue abstaining from all of these. I think I need to stop putting people especially people not directly involved in my life before myself. I think I will be a lot more happy if I stop focusing on trying to always solve everybodys problem and just focus on what makes me happy
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2I have like, a hero complex or something. I feel like if there is some way I can solve anybodys issue I always have to be the one to do it. I'm being begged to enter into an agreement that is going to change my life but will just extend somebody elses current life as it is as if nothing changed. It's going to fuck me over for like 3-4 years, it's not going to benefit me at all but it will make sure somebody I care about will be okay. I will bear the entirety of the burden. and if something goes sideways I will bear the entire financial burden too. and for what?
>>I'm being begged to enter into an agreement that is going to change my life but will just extend somebody elses current life as it is as if nothing changed.
Sire, what does your gut tell you? If your gut tells you: you're getting into too much, maybe you're getting into too much. Clearly your gut is not telling you: "YES YOU HAVE TO DO THIS!", always listen to your gut.
Sire, what does your gut tell you? If your gut tells you: you're getting into too much, maybe you're getting into too much. Clearly your gut is not telling you: "YES YOU HAVE TO DO THIS!", always listen to your gut.
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1I wish my dad was still alive, he would know exactly the words to tell me and he would know exactly what I should do