I have a problem and it's not a womanizing or a sex problem (i fucking love women btw) or a drug problem or even an alcohol or anything like that problem. I have zero issue abstaining from all of these. I think I need to stop putting people especially people not directly involved in my life before myself. I think I will be a lot more happy if I stop focusing on trying to always solve everybodys problem and just focus on what makes me happy
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2I have like, a hero complex or something. I feel like if there is some way I can solve anybodys issue I always have to be the one to do it. I'm being begged to enter into an agreement that is going to change my life but will just extend somebody elses current life as it is as if nothing changed. It's going to fuck me over for like 3-4 years, it's not going to benefit me at all but it will make sure somebody I care about will be okay. I will bear the entirety of the burden. and if something goes sideways I will bear the entire financial burden too. and for what?
I think the words your father would share are behind the vail of your words right here.
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